Wandering ..
Wednesday, April 21, 2010
being hurt . . :)
Hurt itself is emotion worth feeling !! =)
Monday, January 11, 2010
Back to the routine . .
Reached the university at 8:36 AM . . the usual guys presenting their political parties were standing in a queue at the check-post to welcome the new comers . . it's always fun to be showered by roses subah subah :D
Went straight to the lobby and found Sarah waiting for me as usual :) . . then met all the other fellows and then we started our non-stop chatting :D . . As it was the orientation day so we were not supposed to have any class and our sweet department's faculty did not allow us to take the orientation class . . 'aap loug to puraanay hain yeh sirf new comers k liye hai' :P . . so we started wandering here and there . . met some people from my *non-favourites' list* at the canteen *eeww*
After spending a lot of time totally faarigh, we went to the Sociology department and there we got to take an unexpected class of Communication skills . . I simply adored the way the new teacher took the introductory class. . I like the people like her :)
Finally we decided to go back home :D . . I must say, crossing that pedestrian bridge all alone is terrible thing to do :S still whenever I reach the top, I feel like laughing out loud I don't know why :O :D
Thank you Allah, for another good day :)
P.S. I'm missing Ammi terribly right now and I just want to cry out loud :/ :(
Friday, December 25, 2009
Power Of Love!
I believe that amongst the six basic emotions that exist in every human being, Love is the one with the most number of kinds. There is love for our Creator, for our parents, for our blood-relatives, for our country, for our friends, for our work, for the ‘someone special’ in our life, for the things we own, for our pets, for the nature, etc. and the most dominating of all is the love for our own-self. There might be loads of other forms of this single emotion but the irony of experiencing so many forms is that we, the super-creatures confuse all these kinds with each other and make our life miserable. Instead, we should realize the blessing of being able to feel love and should know the separate value of each of its form.
Love is without any shadow of doubt, the most beautiful, enchanting, appealing and pure emotion. It is so powerful that it keeps you bounded and prisoned in its own territory and eventually it compels you to surrender – with or without your wish.
Love has the power of winning over the other person or the thing you desire. And to use this power, one needs to keep the hope alive and BELIEVE! Love is something that nourishes our existence, it purifies our inner-self and in every love lies the seed of our growth. Yes, we will have rough times, we will have to face the obstacles and it does make us suffer but ultimately, love makes us the most strongest person on the earth and then we look back with pride at the journey we have taken to reach the top-most place of our beloved’s heart.
“ Love is but the discovery of ourselves in others , and the delight in the recognition”
Love gives you passion and passion gives you strength. It makes you restless , it makes you feel like you own the world , and it makes the universe beautiful. It is not something which can be imposed on your beloved rather it has that beautiful charm which attracts the other person unknowingly.
Pure love has so much power that it melts the lock of man’s heart and opens the door that leads to soul of the beloved. Love makes you do stupid things and the wisest things as well. It has so much intensity that one can change the mind and heart of the other person completely just through giving unconditional love. Through love, you can tame a wild animal , through love you can change the feelings of people towards you , through love you can know about your inner-self and most of all , through love you can find God.
One just needs to reach the limit of real love and to learn this art , one needs to re-live certain joys and grieves , and firstly to love each and everyone without exception and expectation and to have faith in the power of love and to remember the saying of Rumi.
“Let the lover be disgraceful , crazy , absent-minded , someone sober will worry about the events going badly; Let the lover be.”
Thursday, November 5, 2009
Escape . .
I'm not gonna beg you stay,
'cause you'll be finding,
You can run,
You can hide,
But you can't escape my Love . .
Sunday, July 26, 2009
Thursday, July 23, 2009
sigh*
Is there any way to run away ?!
Sunday, June 7, 2009
The meaning-less Sorrys!
“I am really sorry “- “I did not mean to hurt you “– “It won’t happen again “– etc etc.
Do you think apologies really help?? – Not in my case at least! Some people say, including most of my friends that if someone has done anything wrong to them than he/she should apologize at least once as it will soothe them in a way or other. But does that really happen? Can you really forget all the hurt someone caused you and all the pain they put you through just by an apology?! I am not denying the greatness of forgiving and the courage of asking for forgiveness but sometimes I find “SORRY” just some meaning-less five alphabets said by people who don’t even know its actual worth!
The fact is that if someone is really sorry than you just come to know from their behavior even before they speak those five alphabets! So, for me, it is not necessary to SAY that you’re sorry – it’s not that I want people not to say but it would be much better if they actually show how they feel – as sometimes words are simply not ENOUGH!
And one thing which people should keep in their mind is that no doubt that “to err is human” but mistakes are not something that keeps on happening again and again. If you have done something wrong and you have realized your mistake and you are actually sorry about it then it should NOT happen again because apologizing simple means assuring the other person that it won’t happen again. But if you commit that same mistake again then this time it didn’t just happen, instead you actually committed it! Or you can say, the second time it wasn’t a “MIS-TAKE” rather it was a “TAKE”. =)
Try to use the word “sorry” as less as you can – Avoid doing such things for which you need to apologize later on – Do not REPEAT your mistakes – Don’t be egoistic and stubborn – Be Nice! =)