Power Of Love!

“Love does not need to be discussed; It has its own voice and it speaks for itself.” - This quotation is so true and accepted by the majority of people or I better say lovers as in every person there is a lover, yet we never get tired of discussing LOVE and defining it in almost each and every possible way – That is the strength of this undeniable emotion – THE POWER OF LOVE!

I believe that amongst the six basic emotions that exist in every human being, Love is the one with the most number of kinds. There is love for our Creator, for our parents, for our blood-relatives, for our country, for our friends, for our work, for the ‘someone special’ in our life, for the things we own, for our pets, for the nature, etc. and the most dominating of all is the love for our own-self. There might be loads of other forms of this single emotion but the irony of experiencing so many forms is that we, the super-creatures confuse all these kinds with each other and make our life miserable. Instead, we should realize the blessing of being able to feel love and should know the separate value of each of its form.

Love is without any shadow of doubt, the most beautiful, enchanting, appealing and pure emotion. It is so powerful that it keeps you bounded and prisoned in its own territory and eventually it compels you to surrender – with or without your wish.

Love has the power of winning over the other person or the thing you desire. And to use this power, one needs to keep the hope alive and BELIEVE! Love is something that nourishes our existence, it purifies our inner-self and in every love lies the seed of our growth. Yes, we will have rough times, we will have to face the obstacles and it does make us suffer but ultimately, love makes us the most strongest person on the earth and then we look back with pride at the journey we have taken to reach the top-most place of our beloved’s heart.

“ Love is but the discovery of ourselves in others , and the delight in the recognition”

Love gives you passion and passion gives you strength. It makes you restless , it makes you feel like you own the world , and it makes the universe beautiful. It is not something which can be imposed on your beloved rather it has that beautiful charm which attracts the other person unknowingly.

Pure love has so much power that it melts the lock of man’s heart and opens the door that leads to soul of the beloved. Love makes you do stupid things and the wisest things as well. It has so much intensity that one can change the mind and heart of the other person completely just through giving unconditional love. Through love, you can tame a wild animal , through love you can change the feelings of people towards you , through love you can know about your inner-self and most of all , through love you can find God.

One just needs to reach the limit of real love and to learn this art , one needs to re-live certain joys and grieves , and firstly to love each and everyone without exception and expectation and to have faith in the power of love and to remember the saying of Rumi.

“Let the lover be disgraceful , crazy , absent-minded , someone sober will worry about the events going badly; Let the lover be.”

Escape . .

If you feel like leaving,
I'm not gonna beg you stay,
'cause you'll be finding,
You can run,
You can hide,
But you can't escape my Love . .

:)

Love is but the discovery of ourselves in others, and the delight in the recognition.

sigh*

Depression, Frustrations, Stress , Tensions .. I'm all surrounded by such kind of feelings these days and this all is making me EXHAUSTED! It's not that i am tired of listening and giving advices and helping in the best possible way .. It's just that this is all is becoming more than enough for me ! .. I think I need a long long break ....


Is there any way to run away ?!

The meaning-less Sorrys!

“I am really sorry “- “I did not mean to hurt you “– “It won’t happen again “– etc etc.

Do you think apologies really help?? – Not in my case at least! Some people say, including most of my friends that if someone has done anything wrong to them than he/she should apologize at least once as it will soothe them in a way or other. But does that really happen? Can you really forget all the hurt someone caused you and all the pain they put you through just by an apology?! I am not denying the greatness of forgiving and the courage of asking for forgiveness but sometimes I find “SORRY” just some meaning-less five alphabets said by people who don’t even know its actual worth!

The fact is that if someone is really sorry than you just come to know from their behavior even before they speak those five alphabets! So, for me, it is not necessary to SAY that you’re sorry – it’s not that I want people not to say but it would be much better if they actually show how they feel – as sometimes words are simply not ENOUGH!

And one thing which people should keep in their mind is that no doubt that “to err is human” but mistakes are not something that keeps on happening again and again. If you have done something wrong and you have realized your mistake and you are actually sorry about it then it should NOT happen again because apologizing simple means assuring the other person that it won’t happen again. But if you commit that same mistake again then this time it didn’t just happen, instead you actually committed it! Or you can say, the second time it wasn’t a “MIS-TAKE” rather it was a “TAKE”. =)

Try to use the word “sorry” as less as you can – Avoid doing such things for which you need to apologize later on – Do not REPEAT your mistakes – Don’t be egoistic and stubborn – Be Nice! =)

With Possibility comes Impossibility!

"Nothing is Impossible!" - "Impossible itself means that I-M-POSSIBLE!" - blah blah .. For me, these are just the sentences which you use to boost or calm yourself. At least such sentences do not motivate me, they do not give me any kind of hope, they are just meaning-less sentences for me!

There are some things which are actually IMPOSSIBLE - Just think if everything is possible, if we can do everything, if anything can happen then what is the use of this so not possible word?!

For instance, I did not get admission in my desired department beacuse of my low merit and now it is IMPOSSIBLE to get admission there this year, - My beloved dumped me and is involved with some one else now it is IMPOSSIBLE for me to trust him again, - I lost the game and now it is IMPOSSIBLE for me to get the trophy, My childhood has passed and now it is IMPOSSIBLE to get those days back, The bus was over-loaded and it was IMPOSSIBLE to get a place inside - So, you see how important part this little word is playing in our lives and how it over takes our favourite word POSSIBLE!

I am not denying the importance of alternatives but I believe that alternatives do not satisfy you the way the real things do! - I can try next year and get the admission, I can give another chance to the one I love, I can try again to win the game, I can make my young age more beautiful to compensate for that childhood age, I can take the next bus - But what do I get for now?! Sypmathies?? Consolations?? Motivations?? Taunts?? - I hate them all!

Why don't we realize the actual meaning of this word? Why do we always want to satisfy ourselves by saying that nothing is impossible? Why do we always want to run away from the facts? - Life does not give you the realy joy this way! Though, you can spend some good time by thinking that a 'possibility' is always there but then one day or another, you have to face the reality of IMPOSSIBLE!

Believing in "Everything happens for a reason" should give you the courage to believe that some things are IMPOSSIBLE and there must always be a reason behind that IMPOSSIBLE as well.

Realize this neglected word, Enjoy the impossibilities, Take the alternatives, Face the life without excuses!

-Stay happy! =)

Its late !

" Its never too late " - We all hear this phrase very often but I don't really believe in it. I think it is just an excuse for something you have missed and for me, excuses are always lame, of no use and they should not even exist!

The fact is that it is really late sometimes. For instance, you missed your best buddy's birthday and the next day you wish him/her, feel sorry with this lame phrase in your mind - " It's never too late ". But in your heart you know somewhere inside that it is actually late and the special time, the perfect day has gone. Or for example, someone did something really unfair to you and after sometime he/she realizes his/her mistake and comes back to you just to tell you how sorry he/she is and wants you to forgive because IT'S NEVER TOO LATE ! - This should not happen, being sorry and being forgiven does not mean that the hurt is healed, the pain you caused is vanished. I believe that there is always a right time for everything and when that right time is once passed - its passed! You can not bring it back and it is actually LATE now !

As they say -
" Always leave your loved ones with loving words because it might be the last time you are talking to them. " - So, realize before it is too late. Love NOW! - Forgive NOW! - Care NOW! - Laugh NOW! - Smile NOW! - Enjoy NOW! - Ask for forgiveness NOW! - And most of all, LIVE NOW!

Do not let it go and wait for the right time. Do not commit mistakes knowingly. You never know, NOW may be the right time, NOW may be the last chance.

Come out of this " It's never too late " and avoid being help-less in the end.

Cheers. :)

First day of 2009 !

The day was TERRIBLE! simply terrible! - I wonder how Allah gives patience .. how one can survive without their loved ones ?!

An aunt of mine passed away today .. Unbelievable!! Yes I know everyone has to die .. no one is going to live forever .. I know The Last Day is already written .. but still I can't believe that she is gone - gone forever!
She went for Hajj In December'08 .. with her husband and a son .. She had to come back on 10th of January'09 .. All preparations were done .. Her family here was marking on calender , counting the days .. missing them desperately .. even we were thinking about them .. making plans to bring cake and flowers right on the day of their arrival .. !! But what ?! .. My sister returned from her office with this 'sad' news !

The youngest son used to sleep with her mother .. He told once k I miss her a lot .. specially at night .. He was not crying today .. In fact he was the one who gave the News! .. He was quiet .. just quiet .. sitting at the corner of the room .. LOST! ..

People are saying she is very lucky because she took he last breath in The Holy Place .. Before leaving she asked everyone for forgiveness, finished all her worldly tasks .. and performing her last duty , Allah took her back - sin-less! Luckiest Women I should say .. !! But then again .. How will her family survive without her .. ?! how come someone can live without his/her mother?! It takes my breath even when I only think what I'd have done if I was at their place ..! ! Suicide?! Nervous break-down?! Or would just spend my life as a dead body breathing!! I don't know .. and I don't even want to think about it ..

I just want to pray .. Please Allah don't take my loved ones back before me .. Please Allah I don't want to spend a single moment without them .. *speech-less* ..