" Its never too late " - We all hear this phrase very often but I don't really believe in it. I think it is just an excuse for something you have missed and for me, excuses are always lame, of no use and they should not even exist!
The fact is that it is really late sometimes. For instance, you missed your best buddy's birthday and the next day you wish him/her, feel sorry with this lame phrase in your mind - " It's never too late ". But in your heart you know somewhere inside that it is actually late and the special time, the perfect day has gone. Or for example, someone did something really unfair to you and after sometime he/she realizes his/her mistake and comes back to you just to tell you how sorry he/she is and wants you to forgive because IT'S NEVER TOO LATE ! - This should not happen, being sorry and being forgiven does not mean that the hurt is healed, the pain you caused is vanished. I believe that there is always a right time for everything and when that right time is once passed - its passed! You can not bring it back and it is actually LATE now !
As they say -
" Always leave your loved ones with loving words because it might be the last time you are talking to them. " - So, realize before it is too late. Love NOW! - Forgive NOW! - Care NOW! - Laugh NOW! - Smile NOW! - Enjoy NOW! - Ask for forgiveness NOW! - And most of all, LIVE NOW!
Do not let it go and wait for the right time. Do not commit mistakes knowingly. You never know, NOW may be the right time, NOW may be the last chance.
Come out of this " It's never too late " and avoid being help-less in the end.
Cheers. :)
Sunday, January 18, 2009
Thursday, January 1, 2009
First day of 2009 !
The day was TERRIBLE! simply terrible! - I wonder how Allah gives patience .. how one can survive without their loved ones ?!
An aunt of mine passed away today .. Unbelievable!! Yes I know everyone has to die .. no one is going to live forever .. I know The Last Day is already written .. but still I can't believe that she is gone - gone forever!
She went for Hajj In December'08 .. with her husband and a son .. She had to come back on 10th of January'09 .. All preparations were done .. Her family here was marking on calender , counting the days .. missing them desperately .. even we were thinking about them .. making plans to bring cake and flowers right on the day of their arrival .. !! But what ?! .. My sister returned from her office with this 'sad' news !
The youngest son used to sleep with her mother .. He told once k I miss her a lot .. specially at night .. He was not crying today .. In fact he was the one who gave the News! .. He was quiet .. just quiet .. sitting at the corner of the room .. LOST! ..
People are saying she is very lucky because she took he last breath in The Holy Place .. Before leaving she asked everyone for forgiveness, finished all her worldly tasks .. and performing her last duty , Allah took her back - sin-less! Luckiest Women I should say .. !! But then again .. How will her family survive without her .. ?! how come someone can live without his/her mother?! It takes my breath even when I only think what I'd have done if I was at their place ..! ! Suicide?! Nervous break-down?! Or would just spend my life as a dead body breathing!! I don't know .. and I don't even want to think about it ..
I just want to pray .. Please Allah don't take my loved ones back before me .. Please Allah I don't want to spend a single moment without them .. *speech-less* ..
An aunt of mine passed away today .. Unbelievable!! Yes I know everyone has to die .. no one is going to live forever .. I know The Last Day is already written .. but still I can't believe that she is gone - gone forever!
She went for Hajj In December'08 .. with her husband and a son .. She had to come back on 10th of January'09 .. All preparations were done .. Her family here was marking on calender , counting the days .. missing them desperately .. even we were thinking about them .. making plans to bring cake and flowers right on the day of their arrival .. !! But what ?! .. My sister returned from her office with this 'sad' news !
The youngest son used to sleep with her mother .. He told once k I miss her a lot .. specially at night .. He was not crying today .. In fact he was the one who gave the News! .. He was quiet .. just quiet .. sitting at the corner of the room .. LOST! ..
People are saying she is very lucky because she took he last breath in The Holy Place .. Before leaving she asked everyone for forgiveness, finished all her worldly tasks .. and performing her last duty , Allah took her back - sin-less! Luckiest Women I should say .. !! But then again .. How will her family survive without her .. ?! how come someone can live without his/her mother?! It takes my breath even when I only think what I'd have done if I was at their place ..! ! Suicide?! Nervous break-down?! Or would just spend my life as a dead body breathing!! I don't know .. and I don't even want to think about it ..
I just want to pray .. Please Allah don't take my loved ones back before me .. Please Allah I don't want to spend a single moment without them .. *speech-less* ..
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